The Heart of the Horse Show

The Heart of the Horse Show

In the world of horse shows, the competitors and their trainers often take the spotlight. But behind every successful event stands a hidden army of dedicated individuals whose hard work ensures the horses are cared for and the event runs seamlessly. These unsung heroes, though seldom in the spotlight, are the heartbeat of the show. From the grooms who never leave a horse’s side to the volunteers who keep the schedule on track, it truly takes a village to bring a horse show to life.

At the core of every event are the grooms—the silent warriors who are deeply attuned to the horses in their care. They are up before dawn and working long after dark, tending to every detail from feeding and grooming to monitoring subtle shifts in behavior that might signal a problem. Their bond with the horses runs deep, and their quiet dedication ensures the animals are not only polished for the ring but also comfortable, healthy, and mentally prepared. For grooms, it’s never just a job; it’s a calling.

Trainers, too, are unsung heroes. While riders are often celebrated for their performances, it is the trainers who guide both horse and rider toward success. They shape skills, nurture confidence in horse and rider alike, and put in countless hours behind the scenes to prepare for the pressures of competition. Their expertise and patience form the foundation that allows riders to shine in the ring.

Equally indispensable are the veterinarians and farriers. Vets keep horses healthy and address issues the moment they arise, whether through routine monitoring or by responding in emergencies with mobile veterinary teams. Having vets on call provides peace of mind, ensuring that any health concern—from subtle changes to urgent situations—can be handled immediately. Farriers, meanwhile, ensure every step is sound and pain-free. Though their work is seldom seen by spectators, it is their vigilance and skill that keep horses performing at their best.

Another group of heroes are the haulers, the lifeline of the show circuit. They take on the responsibility of transporting horses safely and comfortably, ensuring that every detail of the journey is accounted for. Thanks to them, trainers and riders can focus on competition rather than logistics, secure in the knowledge that their equine partners are traveling in good hands.

Horse show parents also deserve recognition. They are the emotional backbone of many competitors, quietly managing travel plans, packing gear, and offering steady encouragement. Their sacrifices often go unnoticed, but their presence and unwavering support make all the difference.

Volunteers are equally essential. They’re the ones setting up jumps, checking riders in at the gate, running score sheets, and filling in wherever an extra hand is needed. Most do it purely for the love of horses and the sport, giving their time freely and asking for nothing in return. Their energy, enthusiasm, and willingness to pitch in are what keep the show running on schedule.

Alongside the volunteers, stewards and arena crews play vital roles. Stewards safeguard fairness and safety, ensuring rules are followed and stepping in when disputes arise. Arena crews, meanwhile, work tirelessly to keep footing safe, the rings dragged and watered, and jumps repaired or reset between classes. Their work may go unnoticed by most spectators, but without them, competition would grind to a halt.

Event staff and officials also deserve a spotlight. Judges, scribes, announcers, secretaries, and gate crew keep order amid the bustle, ensuring professionalism, accuracy, and smooth operations. Their attention to detail allows the focus to remain on the horses and riders in the ring.

Behind the scenes, sponsors and donors make so much of the magic possible. Their financial support provides prizes, maintains facilities, and ensures that everything from ribbons to footing can be covered. Though they may not be ringside with a horse, their generosity underpins the experience for everyone.

And then there are the photographers and media teams, who preserve the legacy of each show. Their images and stories allow riders to relive their best moments, families to treasure memories, and the wider equestrian community to feel part of the action. While not caretakers in the traditional sense, they ensure the hard work of every horse and human is remembered long after the show ends.

Together, these individuals form the invisible scaffolding on which every show is built. Their passion and selflessness create the conditions for riders and horses to shine.

So, the next time you watch a horse show, remember: it isn’t just the riders in the spotlight who make the magic happen. It’s the grooms braiding manes at dawn, the parents cheering ringside, the volunteers hauling standards, the farriers hammering in shoes. It’s the stewards safeguarding fairness, the arena crews keeping footing safe, the donors giving generously, and the photographers capturing every moment. Together, they are the heartbeat of the show—the quiet force that allows horses and riders to shine.

To all the unsung heroes in the horse show world—thank you. Your contributions are the foundation of every successful show, and your passion is what makes the sport so special. Without you, the horses and riders could not shine.

Have a favorite behind-the-scenes hero? Share your story and tag them to show your appreciation!

Featured photo by Birgit Berghofer – Equine Images

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The Power of a Pat

The Power of a Pat

Patting your pony after a ride might seem like a small gesture, but it carries a lot of meaning. It’s a simple way to show appreciation for the work your pony has done. They’ve carried you, followed your cues, and put in their effort, and a gentle pat is your way of saying “thank you.” It’s a recognition of the partnership between you two, acknowledging that they’ve done their part just as you’ve done yours1.

In addition to showing appreciation, patting your pony also strengthens the bond between you. Consistent, kind gestures like this reassure your pony that they’re safe with you and that their efforts are recognized positively2. It helps build trust and encourages a deeper connection between you both, fostering an environment where your pony feels supported and understood.

A pat after a ride can also act as positive reinforcement. Horses are very responsive to tone and touch3, and a soft pat lets them know they’ve done well. Over time, this helps them associate rides and work with positive outcomes, reinforcing good behavior and creating a sense of accomplishment4. Just as you might appreciate a hug or a handshake after a job well done, your pony enjoys the same kind of acknowledgment.

Moreover, a pat can be calming for your pony. It helps them transition from “work mode” to rest and relaxation, offering a soothing end to the ride5. Finally, horses thrive on routine, and a post-ride pat helps create a predictable, comforting conclusion to each session, possibly followed by grooming or a treat. This consistent, gentle routine reassures your pony that they’re cared for6.

Something so small can make a big difference. A little appreciation goes a long way in keeping your pony happy, connected, and eager to work with you again. And let’s be honest… patting your pony doesn’t just build connection — it makes for beautiful, heartfelt photos too.

Do you have a special way of thanking your horse after a ride? A pat, a treat, a quiet moment together? I’d love to hear what your post-ride rituals look like — share in the comments below, or tag a fellow rider who always shows their horse some love


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  4. Warren-Smith, A. K., & McGreevy, P. D. (2007). The use of blended positive and negative reinforcement in shaping the halt response of horses (Equus caballus). Animal Welfare, 16(4), 481–488.
  5. Visser, E. K., van Reenen, C. G., Rundgren, M., Zetterqvist, M., Morgan, K., & Blokhuis, H. J. (2003). Responses of horses in behavioural tests correlate with temperament assessed by riders. Equine Veterinary Journal, 35(2), 176–183.
  6. McDonnell, S. (2003). The Equid Ethogram: A Practical Field Guide to Horse Behavior. Eclipse Press.

Featured photo by Birgit Berghofer – Equine Images

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Choose Equestrian Photography

Choose Equestrian Photography

A Monologue, inspired by Trainspotting’s ‘Choose Life’


Choose waking up before the crack of dawn—
only for the light to ghost you because the sun had better plans.
Choose blonde espresso that tastes like regret, and cold fingers fumbling for the lens cap.
Choose carrying $10,000 worth of gear while your back spasms and your arms beg for mercy.
Choose the cold. The heat. The sideways rain.
All for that one second of grace in motion.

Choose a sport where the light’s never right,
the focus is never quite sharp enough,
and the mane never flies the way you imagined.
Choose draft horses, sport horses, ponies with vengeance in their hearts,
and red mares who look at you like you’re the problem.

Choose dust on your lens.
Sweat down your spine.
And a horse who thinks “ears forward” is a personal attack.

Choose your own intrusive thoughts—
“Watch your histogram.”
“Freeze the action.”
“Feel the moment.”
Feel what, Sharon?
The pressure? The exhaustion?
My brain buffering just long enough to spiral into artistic crisis?

Choose gaslighting yourself into thinking this is your passion.
Choose Imposter Syndrome.
Choose lens caps you’ll lose, batteries you forgot to charge,
and memory cards you definitely didn’t format.
Choose waiting in the heat for the moment—
then looking at your screen and realizing you missed it by half a second.

Choose awkward poses.
Shadowy faces.
Angles that haunt your dreams.

Choose smiling through tears when someone says,
“Wow! Your camera takes really nice photos.”

Choose f-stops.
ISO.
RAW files the size of a small country.
And editing at 2 am; face three inches from the screen,
debating your life choices while your laptop burns your thighs.

Choose horsehair in your mouth while you try to capture a black background portrait
that reveals not just the horse—but its essence.
Choose people screenshotting your work like ‘do not copy’ is just a polite suggestion.

Choose precision.
Choose patience.
Choose Photoshop freezing and Lightroom crashing.
Choose never quite feeling good enough.
But choose it anyway.

Choose doing all of this with a smile,
while secretly wondering if a quiet job in retail might be less traumatic.

Choose Instagram reels.
Choose Facebook reach of 0.02%.
Choose TikToks hijacked by teens commenting,
“OMG this horse looks like Spirit!!”

Choose hashtags like #EarPorn and #ManeGoals
and wonder what your life has become.

Choose the mess.
The sweat.
The frustration.
Then—choose that one impossible, magical moment
when everything aligns,
and you think, This is it.
The horse is flying. The rider’s face is pure joy.
And you’ve just captured the soul of the sport in a single frame.

Then choose the next day.
Because one great shot is never enough.

Choose insanity.
Choose delusion.
Choose pulling hay out of your bra.

Choose equestrian photography.
Because there’s nothing else like it.

Agree? Disagree? Still covered in arena dust? Drop your thoughts below!

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