The Heart of the Horse Show

The Heart of the Horse Show

In the world of horse shows, the competitors and their trainers often take the spotlight. But behind every successful event stands a hidden army of dedicated individuals whose hard work ensures the horses are cared for and the event runs seamlessly. These unsung heroes, though seldom in the spotlight, are the heartbeat of the show. From the grooms who never leave a horse’s side to the volunteers who keep the schedule on track, it truly takes a village to bring a horse show to life.

At the core of every event are the grooms—the silent warriors who are deeply attuned to the horses in their care. They are up before dawn and working long after dark, tending to every detail from feeding and grooming to monitoring subtle shifts in behavior that might signal a problem. Their bond with the horses runs deep, and their quiet dedication ensures the animals are not only polished for the ring but also comfortable, healthy, and mentally prepared. For grooms, it’s never just a job; it’s a calling.

Trainers, too, are unsung heroes. While riders are often celebrated for their performances, it is the trainers who guide both horse and rider toward success. They shape skills, nurture confidence in horse and rider alike, and put in countless hours behind the scenes to prepare for the pressures of competition. Their expertise and patience form the foundation that allows riders to shine in the ring.

Equally indispensable are the veterinarians and farriers. Vets keep horses healthy and address issues the moment they arise, whether through routine monitoring or by responding in emergencies with mobile veterinary teams. Having vets on call provides peace of mind, ensuring that any health concern—from subtle changes to urgent situations—can be handled immediately. Farriers, meanwhile, ensure every step is sound and pain-free. Though their work is seldom seen by spectators, it is their vigilance and skill that keep horses performing at their best.

Another group of heroes are the haulers, the lifeline of the show circuit. They take on the responsibility of transporting horses safely and comfortably, ensuring that every detail of the journey is accounted for. Thanks to them, trainers and riders can focus on competition rather than logistics, secure in the knowledge that their equine partners are traveling in good hands.

Horse show parents also deserve recognition. They are the emotional backbone of many competitors, quietly managing travel plans, packing gear, and offering steady encouragement. Their sacrifices often go unnoticed, but their presence and unwavering support make all the difference.

Volunteers are equally essential. They’re the ones setting up jumps, checking riders in at the gate, running score sheets, and filling in wherever an extra hand is needed. Most do it purely for the love of horses and the sport, giving their time freely and asking for nothing in return. Their energy, enthusiasm, and willingness to pitch in are what keep the show running on schedule.

Alongside the volunteers, stewards and arena crews play vital roles. Stewards safeguard fairness and safety, ensuring rules are followed and stepping in when disputes arise. Arena crews, meanwhile, work tirelessly to keep footing safe, the rings dragged and watered, and jumps repaired or reset between classes. Their work may go unnoticed by most spectators, but without them, competition would grind to a halt.

Event staff and officials also deserve a spotlight. Judges, scribes, announcers, secretaries, and gate crew keep order amid the bustle, ensuring professionalism, accuracy, and smooth operations. Their attention to detail allows the focus to remain on the horses and riders in the ring.

Behind the scenes, sponsors and donors make so much of the magic possible. Their financial support provides prizes, maintains facilities, and ensures that everything from ribbons to footing can be covered. Though they may not be ringside with a horse, their generosity underpins the experience for everyone.

And then there are the photographers and media teams, who preserve the legacy of each show. Their images and stories allow riders to relive their best moments, families to treasure memories, and the wider equestrian community to feel part of the action. While not caretakers in the traditional sense, they ensure the hard work of every horse and human is remembered long after the show ends.

Together, these individuals form the invisible scaffolding on which every show is built. Their passion and selflessness create the conditions for riders and horses to shine.

So, the next time you watch a horse show, remember: it isn’t just the riders in the spotlight who make the magic happen. It’s the grooms braiding manes at dawn, the parents cheering ringside, the volunteers hauling standards, the farriers hammering in shoes. It’s the stewards safeguarding fairness, the arena crews keeping footing safe, the donors giving generously, and the photographers capturing every moment. Together, they are the heartbeat of the show—the quiet force that allows horses and riders to shine.

To all the unsung heroes in the horse show world—thank you. Your contributions are the foundation of every successful show, and your passion is what makes the sport so special. Without you, the horses and riders could not shine.

Have a favorite behind-the-scenes hero? Share your story and tag them to show your appreciation!

Featured photo by Birgit Berghofer – Equine Images

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Gatekeeping in Photography: When Passion Meets Pushback

Gatekeeping in Photography: When Passion Meets Pushback

Let’s talk about something that quietly shapes our industry in powerful, and sometimes harmful, ways: gatekeeping in photography.

At its heart, photography is about storytelling. It’s about capturing emotion, preserving fleeting moments, and offering the world a glimpse through your unique lens. And here’s the truth: the best camera will always be the one you have with you. Technical knowledge and expensive gear help, but they don’t define a great photograph. Creativity, effort, and connection do.

Yet even with the increasing accessibility of photography, thanks to smartphones, social media, and digital tools, there’s a persistent culture of gatekeeping, especially in more traditional or niche spaces like equine photography.

There’s an important distinction to make, though. Gatekeeping doesn’t mean setting professional boundaries. It’s not gatekeeping to decline unpaid work, protect your intellectual property, or offer constructive feedback when someone asks for it. Honest critique is part of growth, and not every image is above improvement. But when feedback becomes condescension—or when it’s unsolicited and delivered in a way that shames others for starting small or daring to try—that’s gatekeeping.

To be clear, I’m not talking about photographers who show up to events, shoot half the competitors, and then give the photos away for free—that’s frowned upon for good reason. You should always respect an official photographer’s time, investment, and professional standing. But if someone wants to attend a show to gain experience, practice their craft, or build a portfolio—and does so ethically and respectfully—they should be encouraged, not condemned.

Gatekeeping becomes harmful when it’s rooted in ego rather than principle, and we’ve all seen examples of it.

This isn’t about one person—it’s about industry-wide patterns. The examples I’m referencing are representative of behaviors I’ve seen echoed in forums, on social media, and at events over the years. The goal isn’t to shame individuals, but to name the dynamic so we can do better as a community.

A particularly telling example was a now-archived social media post from a local photographer. Frustrated with newcomers entering the field, the photographer referred to them as “start-up wannabees” and urged them to “break into their bank account and buy a clue,” mocking their gear choices, questioning their professionalism, and ridiculing their presumed youth and inexperience. The rant even laid claim to a venue that the photographer does not actually own, presenting it as “my venue” in an attempt to assert territorial control.

That sort of rhetoric doesn’t protect the industry—it damages it. Dismissing emerging talent because they don’t yet have business insurance or a $4,000 lens doesn’t uphold standards; it discourages growth. We all start somewhere. Every professional once struggled with settings, budget limitations, and finding their place in the industry.

Unfortunately, this wasn’t an isolated incident. In a separate instance, an individual publicly berated another member who was simply asking for guidance on pricing their services. Instead of offering support, the response was a harsh verbal attack—accusing the poster of undercutting others and “throwing everyone else under the bus.”

When established photographers use their platform to mock, exclude, or belittle those who are new or different, it creates a culture of fear. It isolates, intimidates, and silences the very people who are trying to learn and grow. Gatekeeping stifles creativity, limits diversity, and creates an elitist environment where only a select few feel welcome. It undermines community, collaboration, and the very spirit of what photography should be about.

Thankfully, the rise of digital platforms is helping shift the power dynamic. Photographers no longer need to wait for approval from the old guard—they can share their work, build a following, and create opportunities for themselves. But the attitudes that gatekeeping creates still linger—and they continue to shape how people experience the industry.

I’ve been very lucky to have had the opportunity to do practicums with two very successful equine photographers as part of my photography studies. They mentored and encouraged me when I was just starting out, and that kind of support made a lasting impact on me. It’s exactly the kind of guidance our industry needs more of, and I do my best to offer the same kind of support to those starting out.

Let’s Open the Gate

If you’re an experienced photographer, be a mentor, not a gatekeeper. Share your knowledge. Encourage growth, and remember where you started.

And if you’re just starting out—keep going. Ask questions, seek feedback, and don’t let outdated attitudes hold you back.

The photography world is big enough for all of us. Let’s build a community rooted in creativity, not competition.

Have you experienced gatekeeping—or mentorship—in your photography journey? Share your story.

Photo by Henning Kesselhut on Unsplash

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The Power of a Pat

The Power of a Pat

Patting your pony after a ride might seem like a small gesture, but it carries a lot of meaning. It’s a simple way to show appreciation for the work your pony has done. They’ve carried you, followed your cues, and put in their effort, and a gentle pat is your way of saying “thank you.” It’s a recognition of the partnership between you two, acknowledging that they’ve done their part just as you’ve done yours1.

In addition to showing appreciation, patting your pony also strengthens the bond between you. Consistent, kind gestures like this reassure your pony that they’re safe with you and that their efforts are recognized positively2. It helps build trust and encourages a deeper connection between you both, fostering an environment where your pony feels supported and understood.

A pat after a ride can also act as positive reinforcement. Horses are very responsive to tone and touch3, and a soft pat lets them know they’ve done well. Over time, this helps them associate rides and work with positive outcomes, reinforcing good behavior and creating a sense of accomplishment4. Just as you might appreciate a hug or a handshake after a job well done, your pony enjoys the same kind of acknowledgment.

Moreover, a pat can be calming for your pony. It helps them transition from “work mode” to rest and relaxation, offering a soothing end to the ride5. Finally, horses thrive on routine, and a post-ride pat helps create a predictable, comforting conclusion to each session, possibly followed by grooming or a treat. This consistent, gentle routine reassures your pony that they’re cared for6.

Something so small can make a big difference. A little appreciation goes a long way in keeping your pony happy, connected, and eager to work with you again. And let’s be honest… patting your pony doesn’t just build connection — it makes for beautiful, heartfelt photos too.

Do you have a special way of thanking your horse after a ride? A pat, a treat, a quiet moment together? I’d love to hear what your post-ride rituals look like — share in the comments below, or tag a fellow rider who always shows their horse some love


  1. McGreevy, P., & McLean, A. (2010). Equitation Science. Wiley-Blackwell.
  2. Hausberger, M., Roche, H., Henry, S., & Visser, E. K. (2008). A review of the human–horse relationship. Applied Animal Behaviour Science, 109(1), 1–24.
  3. Proops, L., McComb, K., & Reby, D. (2009). Cross-modal individual recognition in domestic horses (Equus caballus). Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, 106(3), 947–951.
  4. Warren-Smith, A. K., & McGreevy, P. D. (2007). The use of blended positive and negative reinforcement in shaping the halt response of horses (Equus caballus). Animal Welfare, 16(4), 481–488.
  5. Visser, E. K., van Reenen, C. G., Rundgren, M., Zetterqvist, M., Morgan, K., & Blokhuis, H. J. (2003). Responses of horses in behavioural tests correlate with temperament assessed by riders. Equine Veterinary Journal, 35(2), 176–183.
  6. McDonnell, S. (2003). The Equid Ethogram: A Practical Field Guide to Horse Behavior. Eclipse Press.

Featured photo by Birgit Berghofer – Equine Images

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Choose Equestrian Photography

Choose Equestrian Photography

A Monologue, inspired by Trainspotting’s ‘Choose Life’


Choose waking up before the crack of dawn—
only for the light to ghost you because the sun had better plans.
Choose blonde espresso that tastes like regret, and cold fingers fumbling for the lens cap.
Choose carrying $10,000 worth of gear while your back spasms and your arms beg for mercy.
Choose the cold. The heat. The sideways rain.
All for that one second of grace in motion.

Choose a sport where the light’s never right,
the focus is never quite sharp enough,
and the mane never flies the way you imagined.
Choose draft horses, sport horses, ponies with vengeance in their hearts,
and red mares who look at you like you’re the problem.

Choose dust on your lens.
Sweat down your spine.
And a horse who thinks “ears forward” is a personal attack.

Choose your own intrusive thoughts—
“Watch your histogram.”
“Freeze the action.”
“Feel the moment.”
Feel what, Sharon?
The pressure? The exhaustion?
My brain buffering just long enough to spiral into artistic crisis?

Choose gaslighting yourself into thinking this is your passion.
Choose Imposter Syndrome.
Choose lens caps you’ll lose, batteries you forgot to charge,
and memory cards you definitely didn’t format.
Choose waiting in the heat for the moment—
then looking at your screen and realizing you missed it by half a second.

Choose awkward poses.
Shadowy faces.
Angles that haunt your dreams.

Choose smiling through tears when someone says,
“Wow! Your camera takes really nice photos.”

Choose f-stops.
ISO.
RAW files the size of a small country.
And editing at 2 am; face three inches from the screen,
debating your life choices while your laptop burns your thighs.

Choose horsehair in your mouth while you try to capture a black background portrait
that reveals not just the horse—but its essence.
Choose people screenshotting your work like ‘do not copy’ is just a polite suggestion.

Choose precision.
Choose patience.
Choose Photoshop freezing and Lightroom crashing.
Choose never quite feeling good enough.
But choose it anyway.

Choose doing all of this with a smile,
while secretly wondering if a quiet job in retail might be less traumatic.

Choose Instagram reels.
Choose Facebook reach of 0.02%.
Choose TikToks hijacked by teens commenting,
“OMG this horse looks like Spirit!!”

Choose hashtags like #EarPorn and #ManeGoals
and wonder what your life has become.

Choose the mess.
The sweat.
The frustration.
Then—choose that one impossible, magical moment
when everything aligns,
and you think, This is it.
The horse is flying. The rider’s face is pure joy.
And you’ve just captured the soul of the sport in a single frame.

Then choose the next day.
Because one great shot is never enough.

Choose insanity.
Choose delusion.
Choose pulling hay out of your bra.

Choose equestrian photography.
Because there’s nothing else like it.

Agree? Disagree? Still covered in arena dust? Drop your thoughts below!

Photo by Thomas William on Unsplash

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From Boots to Bling: What to Wear for Horse + Rider Portraits

From Boots to Bling: What to Wear for Horse + Rider Portraits

The lead-up to a portrait session can be nerve-wracking—but it doesn’t have to be! My best advice? Stick with what you already own and love.

The easiest way to look great on camera is to wear clothes that fit well and make you feel comfortable. The more comfortable you are, the more confident you’ll feel—and that always shines through in your photos. Choose outfits that reflect your personal style. Don’t be afraid to play with tones, textures, layers, and accessories.

Outfit Options
Choose outfits that fit well, reflect your personal style, and allow you to move comfortably—confidence and ease always shine on camera. Show attire is perfect for highlighting your discipline, while well-fitted jeans with a crisp shirt or stylish top work beautifully for a relaxed, lifestyle feel.

Don’t be afraid to mix textures and layers, or add accessories that show personality—such as a belt, watch, scarf, or subtle statement jewelry.

Avoid anything too tight, too loose, or fussy to adjust, as you’ll be walking, sitting, and moving with your horse. Flattering, functional pieces paired with practical, horse-friendly footwear will keep you looking and feeling your best.

Neutral tones like black, white, grey, and beige are timeless and complement most horses. Earthy shades—such as browns, greens, and muted tones—create a natural look, while carefully chosen complementary colors can add a bold, cohesive pop.

Consider your horse’s coloring when choosing your palette:

  • Chestnuts look great in blues, turquoise, deep purple, yellow, or dark green.
  • Bays are striking when paired with red, royal blue, pink, deep orange, or purple.
  • Blacks and Grays look amazing in most colors! Try red, purple, pink, and blue.
  • Red and Blue Roans Red and Blue Roans can be tricky; try to match your horse’s undertone to avoid clashing. Shades of red for red roans, and shades of blue for blue roans.
  • Browns and Duns tend to look best with deep blue, purple, blue-green, or black.
  • Sorrels pair wonderfully with royal blue, dark green, emerald, and black.
  • Buckskins shine with jewel tones, especially emerald, garnet or sapphire.
  • Palominos are wonderfully versatile—try sage green, royal blue, chocolate, hot pink, most pastels, and cream tones.

Bold colors can be striking, but try to balance them—perhaps by coordinating your top with your horse’s polo wraps or saddle pad. If you’re unsure, add bright pops of color with small accessories instead of going all-in.

Final Details
Make sure your clothes are clean and pressed. Check your nails (clean and tidy!), remove band-aids, hair ties from your wrist, and take note of little things—the camera sees everything. If it’s a sunny day, consider wearing sunscreen. Want to feel extra polished? Treat yourself to professional hair and makeup. It can be a lovely way to make the occasion feel extra special.

I’d love to hear your style secrets. Do you have a go-to outfit or favorite look? What tones do you love pairing with your horse’s coat color? Share your tips or ask your questions below!

Featured photo by Ani Rain on Unsplash

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